Christ, can't a guy think! Turn a few ideas around in his think-pan before flapping his petulant lips? Jesus.

[ Though it's true that sometimes it seems Karkat mainly uses his brainpower on his colourful yelling. He sighs. ]

Keep in mind I haven't met her so chances are I'm totally talking out of my ass here, but since when is that a problem? Anyway, the lack of emotion is always going to be a concern. You know moirallegiance requires as much investment as the concuscipient quadrants, even if it's way less intense. Which gets into my second concern: being pale comes from pity, which it sure sounds like you have... But a big part of that is about pacification too. It sounds like she needs that way less than you do, and might in fact benefit from an intense relationship that provokes emotions instead.